Improve Your Abilities

Some days a lot of questions came to me, 'Ma'am, I am 36 years of age or older than 40 years, I experience a, b to z, I have many years of working in PT XYZ, I have a problem with my company, I was not paid properly and a variety of problems that do need answers and general questions came from women.

Raises questions in my heart, why do they have to ask that, if they are not sure of themselves, so they would have to ask and make sure can or not? or why they should stay so long in the firms that make them uncomfortable?

I want to ask why and why? but its not my capacity for ask .... unless they want to talk or discussion with me and of course in the capacity as a friend. Because not my place to judge good or bad company, or human resources quality or not, things returned to their respective private. Want or do not develop themselves to improve the quality of his personality.


With what (What)?
with a name or SKILL ABILITY.

Why? (Rev.)
Ability or skill is very important for every individual? because by increasing our ability to make value-added or value added. The possibilities for a position or a job easier.

How and who? (How and Who)
Following training tailored to your interest in working, such as a customer service representative, can attend training 'Serve the Good', 'Leadership', 'ability to sell', language skills and deepen various other training that can support the career nature or retirement preparation.

If someone has the ability to penjadi businesses or enterpreneurs can follow the training that will support its business to be cultivated later. Such as 'Leadership', 'Time Management', 'Being a Good Entrepreneur' and of course the most important learning products to run as a business later on.

In addition to training enrich themselves by reading books, newspapers, magazines or tabloids that can help memgembangkan themselves. Technological development is also more remarkable, the world seemed without limit with the internet. Through the virtual world or the Internet we can learn anything with ease. Google searching one facility where we can find the information we need on the internet.

When and where? (When and Where)
while young and able to follow the training facilitated by the company or offered training center or charity that provides affordable training or aid agencies world that provides training free of charge.

..... and the most important of all is to always think positive and believe you can. Nothing is impossible as long as you want and try, because God is always helping his people who want to try and appreciate what HE gave. HE never slept so HE knows where his people who want to or not.

Always look at the opportunities that exist if there CHANCE, never afraid to try.
So ... KEEP THE SPIRIT ... NEVER STOP LEARNING TO EVERYTHING ....


Rasuna Office Park, 7.15pm, August 10, 2009
written by Siti Meiyana Arafat

Building Confidence

Perhaps rarely realized, that one of the important capital of a salesman is a sense of confidence. There is an opinion, before you start selling a product, a salesman must be able to "sell" himself first. This means that an important part of an art of selling is how we make a first potential buyer likes and believes in the seller. Therefore, a salesman must have confidence before you make other people believe him.

Below is a recipe for building confidence ...

Avoid Finding Reason
So many people withdraw their intentions with a premise that does not make sense and completely wrong, such as I could, I could not because ..., I have not been adequate education, I'm too old, I was too young, etc. ...

Anyone can find reasons for all sorts of things. A possible reason for a while can be fun and reassurance, but the reasons will only menghamabat seseoarang of achieving the target. Remember that our brain is a storage area - what we put in turn will go out again, so replace the insertion of negative things to positive things.

Use the Power of Images
Brain with an unlimited capacity to help us with no restrictions to achieve life's ambitions, only if we give him a chance. Let him describe ourselves as a person we want. Describe the form you want to clear. The more we think about it all, the greater the certainty of a positive outcome.

If you are constantly letting your mind is filled with various thoughts about the disease and ill health, almost certainly you will have the disease you think about it. Similarly, if we constantly think about negative results of social or business careers, thinking that in turn will take root in us.

So in the process of building confidence through the imagination of the brain, it is important to be sure that what we think and see clearly is a positive thing. Positive things that should allow a positive impression on us and improvement, and positive thinking should lead to our goals, ideals and happiness in life.

Do not Fear Failure
Failure has mengahalangi so many people. So they retreated before the try, before doing or before reaching success. Because they are unable to accept the terms in which it is possible to fail. Some people really do not ever try anything for fear of failure has mastered their brains for years. Every day they think of this failure, so they never really do something and in the end they do not believe in themselves and full of doubt.

Someone who feared drowned, never be able to swim

Appearance Form Confidence
External appearance is not everything. However, sometimes need to spend money for an interesting exterior. Because, with an attractive exterior provides opportunities that exist within us to feel good.

Compile Notes on Success The Retrieved
Every person must have to succeed in life. How to collect past record of success is very simple. Think about your success through the earliest that could happen during school, when he won the race marbles or sack race. Perhaps also begins congratulations win the race when drawing or painting. This can be done orally on audio cassette or a notebook. You can look back and update the record most valuable asset you with memories that will be successful.

Motivation can only perpetuate itself by hope. To motivate themselves, one must have hope of a future. Therefore, in motivating a person responsible for creating their own expectations.

Working Women

In a book written by a leading religious scholar said that if the husband can provide for women's family should not have to work to find additional income. Blessing of a household was not due to the amount of money earned both, but more a blessing, if only the husband working. If only the government to pay salaries to their husbands enough to meet household needs or to give salary to women who want to take care of their children at home, then the problems in the household would not exist. Women to function as a guard and pillar of the household while the husband make a living. Women who stay at home to look after children and her husband with a calm, so household suasanan created a harmonious, loving peace.

When women began to leave the house looking for his own money to call mengatas career and equality, then the problems start. In terms of income did rise that had just paid USD 3 million plus another USD 3 million to $ 6 million. But remember spending also increased, yag money was USD 3 million to dicukup both ends meet family needs to be perceived less as income increases. The need for better transportation, if the workplace is different, the budget for breakfast (if not time for breakfast at home), lunch, snacks, extra for the afternoon, the budget for the maid, baby sitter and consumption for those who join us become less cost calculated at the beginning. Not to mention the cost for the equipment works, ranging from clothes, bags, shoes, cosmetics, cell phones, laptops and the cost to the salon, massage for stress, etc.. Money that had seen many women work even with less.

Ideally it may be sufficient if our husbands do not work outside the home, especially when the children were toddlers (under five years) which is a "golden age" of gold, which they absorb almost 80% of everything around it. This period is very important because it will affect their intelligence will be the future in every way, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually so very wrong during this important and vulnerable they are handed over to people whose quality is lower than us, such as domestic servants. If the care given to parents or relatives who have equivalent quality with us, it is still acceptable.

In fact, life in this world nothing is ideal, any injustice, problems, suffering, will always accompany them kita.Untuk steps that are not fortunate to work is a must, if it does not work then can not eat. They just simply to survive. Many women who have to bear the stress due to the double burden, as a housewife and also had to work for a living. Some laid off so her husband in the family burden was dipundaknya. The situation becomes more severe if the husband who does not work do not want to roll up his hand to help domestic affairs.

This situation occurs not only poor family environment, but also in a rich family. Women from rich families are getting a good education so they also get a good job. Because of the economic state of good, then do not look how the shape of their suffering, or even suffer but they still have a lot of money. When you think and can choose the course they want to be happy, because money can not buy happiness .. A lot of this kind of powerful woman must fend for themselves bear the heavy burden of life, for domestic affairs, the money they can hire maids, drivers and guards of the best child , but still their souls dry and thirsty for love. The husband of this parasite was used to clear the good life, they do not want to hard even though they do not have a clear job. Works hang in the café, a lobby here and there in style with all the facilities of parents or wife.

A friend is smart, beautiful and wealthy family, has a husband who chose the profession is not clear, bergonta change professions. Each time she failed to intervene solve every problem both morally and materially to the woman Parents upset because the credit card bill to pay for a glamorous lifestyle was paid-in-law. Friends had probably love the hell out or have to accept his fate willingly. I've kerumahnya she was cooking a lot, I think what the occasion, apparently did her husband was in a body building program so can only eat meat. Husbands who do not clear the job and his income is like a king diladeni and given the best food by his wife. I heard her cry out while my friends were busy cooking, the child's father who had been watching TV does not care about the crying anaknya.Pernah in difficult circumstances do not have a car, her husband never wanted to ride the bus, wants a taxi, do not even want to call a cab , became the wife stand patiently cab lane road for the king tega.Perempuan so ikhlasnya for a living, serving her husband, raising children, while the king's heart with his quiet life without care bagimana happy to help her make ends meet household.

If only women were at home and provide the opportunity to work for a man, then maybe things will get better. But what about emancipation, with equal rights, with investments that have been implanted in the form of education, whether by not working it becomes futile life? Not if he was willing to accept and carry out its role as a source of love and knowledge for his family, then he would be happy to run his life. If I remember my life's journey it was in when the kids were little with our incomes remain fit all makes us happy. I worked as an assistant professor with a small fee, selling all kinds of household appliances with the system 10: 1, means 10 can I sell 1. That way I can save expenses by not buying items such as stove, dishes, carpets, glass, etc.. Since I only work a few hours a week, so a lot of time used to play with children while learning how to settle down. Every evening after the kids a bath, a walk around the complex while waiting for her husband home. It felt so happy seeing his father come home, sometimes bringing martabak or fruit as oeh-by.

Over time, once the 8-year-old first and second child 3 years old I started working full time as a manager of foreign banks disebuah. A very big leap from a free lancer became manager of the company with all the trimmings. Big salary, share the latest car, the famous club membership and outstanding activities to make a change in perspective. Increasingly difficult to definite the meaning of happiness, all the material and the Constitution (tip-tip Duit). Domestic issues one by one appeared and the more complicated because of ego talking. Each feels right and as a woman who has a large income began to think that life itself is more bahagia.Berbagai problems and suffering that forged like a ugly caterpillar turning into a cocoon and eventually out into beautiful butterflies. Struggle to sincere and believe that all property is meaningless if our homes are not getting along. The home is an earthly paradise created by God for us, so do not ever stop struggling to hold on to mempertahankannya.Hanya with the rules of Allah and His Messenger, then we are women who work continue to place happiness above segalanya.Kita family willing to leave all earthly life for artificial happiness and Paradise of the world, through family vegas, mawadddah and mercy. amien

Posted by iftidayasar


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Gifts From The Heart for Women

Workers in providing outsourcing services, there are 2 types of agreements that must be done, namely:

1. Agreements between companies with corporate employers
provider of workers / laborers.

Companies can give up some jobs to other companies through chartering agreement or agreements providing employment services to workers made in writing. Work that can be transferred to another company must meet the following requirements:
a. conducted separately from the main activity;
b. done with the command, directly or indirectly from the employer;
c. merupakakan activities supporting the overall company;
d. not impede the production process directly.
e. in terms of placement of workers / laborers, the labor service user company will pay a sum of money (management fee) at the supplier company employees / workers.


2. Agreement provider of workers / laborers with employees
Providing services to workers or labor support activities the company must meet the following requirements:

a. working relationship between workers or labor and services companies, workers or laborers;
b. employment agreement which applies in the employment relationship is a partnership agreement for a certain time requirements and or agreements are not time specific work which is in writing and signed by both parties;
c. business protection and welfare, working conditions and disputes arising is the responsibility of service providers workers / laborers.

With 2 (two) agreement, then although the day-to-day employee worked at the company employer, he remains an employee status as a provider of enterprise workers. Fulfillment of the rights of employees such as wages and welfare protection, working conditions, as well as disputes arising remain the responsibility of the employee services companies.

Implementation of oursourcing is meant in the context of the production cost efficiency with which this system can save companies the expense of workers in the finance company. Thus, the agreement between the employee's employment with the company's outsourcing outsourcing usually follow a period of cooperation agreements between the company outsourcing companies outsourcing users. This is when the user companies outsourcing services to end cooperation with the outsourcing company, then at the same time also ended employment contract between the employee with outsourcing companies.

Written by Iftida Yasar (Agreement in the implementation of "Outsourcing")

loving greetings,
Fikir Indonesia Pelita teams

Agreement in the implementation of "Outsourcing

Workers in providing outsourcing services, there are 2 types of agreements that must be done, namely:

1. Agreements between companies with corporate employers
provider of workers / laborers.

Companies can give up some jobs to other companies through chartering agreement or agreements providing employment services to workers made in writing. Work that can be transferred to another company must meet the following requirements:
a. conducted separately from the main activity;
b. done with the command, directly or indirectly from the employer;
c. merupakakan activities supporting the overall company;
d. not impede the production process directly.
e. in terms of placement of workers / laborers, the labor service user company will pay a sum of money (management fee) at the supplier company employees / workers.

2. Agreement provider of workers / laborers with employees
Providing services to workers or labor support activities the company must meet the following requirements:

a. working relationship between workers or labor and services companies, workers or laborers;
b. employment agreement which applies in the employment relationship is a partnership agreement for a certain time requirements and or agreements are not time specific work which is in writing and signed by both parties;
c. business protection and welfare, working conditions and disputes arising is the responsibility of service providers workers / laborers.

With 2 (two) agreement, then although the day-to-day employee worked at the company employer, he remains an employee status as a provider of enterprise workers. Fulfillment of the rights of employees such as wages and welfare protection, working conditions, as well as disputes arising remain the responsibility of the employee services companies.

Implementation of oursourcing is meant in the context of the production cost efficiency with which this system can save companies the expense of workers in the finance company. Thus, the agreement between the employee's employment with the company's outsourcing outsourcing usually follow a period of cooperation agreements between the company outsourcing companies outsourcing users. This is when the user companies outsourcing services to end cooperation with the outsourcing company, then at the same time also ended employment contract between the employee with outsourcing companies.

Written by Iftida Yasar (Agreement in the implementation of "Outsourcing")

loving greetings,
Fikir Indonesia Pelita teams

The Purpose of Life

Many people simply live life, without having a "GOAL" is clear. And while one does not have a "GOAL" is clear, then he did not know whether he was doing it would make him a "BIG" or "NO".

Every training session I always give it something like this arise. When participants were asked, Do you have a GOAL, GOAL, DREAM ..? It was predictable, all participants must be answered, "certainly doong ..." it is "or the objectives siih there ga ..

Okay .. if so now take a piece of paper, and write down the goals / Goal / Dream you
Within minutes the participants are always thoughtful reply mnghadapi blank paper ...

Looh .. ko confused? He said a goal, a dream Goals??
That yag frequent and always occur

For people - people succeed, the determination of "LIFE PURPOSE" is "The Key" that will make someone reach what dikendaki in this life. Because everything that exists in the real world begins with one's desires or goals.

What is the benefit of a person having a clear purpose in life ..?

1. Our spirits are always updated.

Without clear objectives, enthusiasm will easily fade. Morale appears when we fought for a clear purpose and see how "the Creator" works in our lives.

2. The direction of our lives becomes clear.

Without goals, we lose direction and will not go anywhere. Finally we become complacent, saying: 'I did this there'.
That's why Have a definite purpose in life so that we know will be what we will.

3. Reach achievement above average.

Without goals, our lives would be mediocre. Working with the focus and make things the best in your life.

4. Have the right attitude.

When we do not like the choices we make, we usually will be more critical, grumbling (it - other negative things). But if we follow the plan "the Creator", we'd better have an open heart and can better relate to other people.

5. Life is more precious.

If we live for ourselves, then we will be disappointed. Setting goals will help us use the time, effort, expertise and talent / talents wisely.
Life is a gift, and we need to handle it well.
Pick a clear purpose in life and ordain "LIFE PURPOSE" right now.


Soooo .....
SET>>> write>>> VISUAL / IMAGINE always>>> accompanied with DOA>>> KEJAR and Reach your GOALS

Keep Faith ....
Salam Positive

Life for Happiness

Irma Sustika