Apart between husband and wife are very unpleasant, especially when going for days. Perhaps many causes, whether due to run out of town services or other things.
When the husband and wife are physically far apart, sexual desire appears often easier to feel. If it's so lonely going to happen. Such conditions can be dangerous even though it depends on the processing of each individual.
One step that is safe enough to masturbate. However, masturbate alone does not seem fun. Would be more fun when done together with a partner. How? According to sex expert from Northern California, United States, John Gray Ph.D., this step might as well write a letter sex. Author of Mars and Venus in the Bedroom was said, an effort that could be quite simple.
Here's how. First, point out to your partner how berahinya and how you want berhasratnya partner near you. Ask your partner to stroke himself. Ask her to do it with my eyes closed and imagine that you're a caress it.
Of course you also do the same. Talk turns and respond to each other. Occasionally describe how you feel and how you imagine what the couple to yourself or what you did with your partner. Finally, in this way the spouse can imagine a sexual relationship.
With a little help ointments like jelly (like hand lotion), masturbation can be done together. Although this step is not really senikmat intercourse, at least not enough to close and reduce the simmering passion. All you need to look at, do not talk on your mobile phone because his voice could be leaked to radio neighbors. Make sure that you use your phone secure. This is a very personal moment for you and not for the neighbors.