Working Women

In a book written by a leading religious scholar said that if the husband can provide for women's family should not have to work to find additional income. Blessing of a household was not due to the amount of money earned both, but more a blessing, if only the husband working. If only the government to pay salaries to their husbands enough to meet household needs or to give salary to women who want to take care of their children at home, then the problems in the household would not exist. Women to function as a guard and pillar of the household while the husband make a living. Women who stay at home to look after children and her husband with a calm, so household suasanan created a harmonious, loving peace.

When women began to leave the house looking for his own money to call mengatas career and equality, then the problems start. In terms of income did rise that had just paid USD 3 million plus another USD 3 million to $ 6 million. But remember spending also increased, yag money was USD 3 million to dicukup both ends meet family needs to be perceived less as income increases. The need for better transportation, if the workplace is different, the budget for breakfast (if not time for breakfast at home), lunch, snacks, extra for the afternoon, the budget for the maid, baby sitter and consumption for those who join us become less cost calculated at the beginning. Not to mention the cost for the equipment works, ranging from clothes, bags, shoes, cosmetics, cell phones, laptops and the cost to the salon, massage for stress, etc.. Money that had seen many women work even with less.

Ideally it may be sufficient if our husbands do not work outside the home, especially when the children were toddlers (under five years) which is a "golden age" of gold, which they absorb almost 80% of everything around it. This period is very important because it will affect their intelligence will be the future in every way, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually so very wrong during this important and vulnerable they are handed over to people whose quality is lower than us, such as domestic servants. If the care given to parents or relatives who have equivalent quality with us, it is still acceptable.

In fact, life in this world nothing is ideal, any injustice, problems, suffering, will always accompany them kita.Untuk steps that are not fortunate to work is a must, if it does not work then can not eat. They just simply to survive. Many women who have to bear the stress due to the double burden, as a housewife and also had to work for a living. Some laid off so her husband in the family burden was dipundaknya. The situation becomes more severe if the husband who does not work do not want to roll up his hand to help domestic affairs.

This situation occurs not only poor family environment, but also in a rich family. Women from rich families are getting a good education so they also get a good job. Because of the economic state of good, then do not look how the shape of their suffering, or even suffer but they still have a lot of money. When you think and can choose the course they want to be happy, because money can not buy happiness .. A lot of this kind of powerful woman must fend for themselves bear the heavy burden of life, for domestic affairs, the money they can hire maids, drivers and guards of the best child , but still their souls dry and thirsty for love. The husband of this parasite was used to clear the good life, they do not want to hard even though they do not have a clear job. Works hang in the café, a lobby here and there in style with all the facilities of parents or wife.

A friend is smart, beautiful and wealthy family, has a husband who chose the profession is not clear, bergonta change professions. Each time she failed to intervene solve every problem both morally and materially to the woman Parents upset because the credit card bill to pay for a glamorous lifestyle was paid-in-law. Friends had probably love the hell out or have to accept his fate willingly. I've kerumahnya she was cooking a lot, I think what the occasion, apparently did her husband was in a body building program so can only eat meat. Husbands who do not clear the job and his income is like a king diladeni and given the best food by his wife. I heard her cry out while my friends were busy cooking, the child's father who had been watching TV does not care about the crying anaknya.Pernah in difficult circumstances do not have a car, her husband never wanted to ride the bus, wants a taxi, do not even want to call a cab , became the wife stand patiently cab lane road for the king tega.Perempuan so ikhlasnya for a living, serving her husband, raising children, while the king's heart with his quiet life without care bagimana happy to help her make ends meet household.

If only women were at home and provide the opportunity to work for a man, then maybe things will get better. But what about emancipation, with equal rights, with investments that have been implanted in the form of education, whether by not working it becomes futile life? Not if he was willing to accept and carry out its role as a source of love and knowledge for his family, then he would be happy to run his life. If I remember my life's journey it was in when the kids were little with our incomes remain fit all makes us happy. I worked as an assistant professor with a small fee, selling all kinds of household appliances with the system 10: 1, means 10 can I sell 1. That way I can save expenses by not buying items such as stove, dishes, carpets, glass, etc.. Since I only work a few hours a week, so a lot of time used to play with children while learning how to settle down. Every evening after the kids a bath, a walk around the complex while waiting for her husband home. It felt so happy seeing his father come home, sometimes bringing martabak or fruit as oeh-by.

Over time, once the 8-year-old first and second child 3 years old I started working full time as a manager of foreign banks disebuah. A very big leap from a free lancer became manager of the company with all the trimmings. Big salary, share the latest car, the famous club membership and outstanding activities to make a change in perspective. Increasingly difficult to definite the meaning of happiness, all the material and the Constitution (tip-tip Duit). Domestic issues one by one appeared and the more complicated because of ego talking. Each feels right and as a woman who has a large income began to think that life itself is more bahagia.Berbagai problems and suffering that forged like a ugly caterpillar turning into a cocoon and eventually out into beautiful butterflies. Struggle to sincere and believe that all property is meaningless if our homes are not getting along. The home is an earthly paradise created by God for us, so do not ever stop struggling to hold on to mempertahankannya.Hanya with the rules of Allah and His Messenger, then we are women who work continue to place happiness above segalanya.Kita family willing to leave all earthly life for artificial happiness and Paradise of the world, through family vegas, mawadddah and mercy. amien

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